Disempowering the harsh critic

At times the internal harsh critic dominates the table.  It’s hard to get a word in edgewise. It clouds the table with a murky fog that dims any light from coming through.

However, if I can muster the courage to give it even a kind look, or a slight warm smile, this is certain to throw it off-guard.  It’s not used to any acceptance.  Its power is non-acceptance.  It lives through fear, and terror, and harshness, and anger, and shame.

It heretofore has not known kindness.

It softens some.  Maybe it surprises even itself with a little smile, a chuckle to itself.  It has a lot to learn from kindness.  Things may not be so bad after all.

It is somehow being transformed by its new friend–kindness.

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