Life is an amazing journey of transformation, most obvious as we age, but nonetheless always present, though often more subtly. We have a choice how we relate to these changes.
When my daughter was off to college and in the throes of transforming from a teen to a young adult, some words spilled out of my mouth that have now become a sort of mantra for me as friends, dear ones, and I change.
“What new forms may our love take?”
Remembering this and focusing on it allows more of a letting go to the moment, a willingness to support the relationship to take new forms as people grow and change.
Rather than the often more typical responses of holding on to past patterns and resisting and even trying to control change, this helps engender a genuine curiosity and openness to these new forms, thereby embracing new possibilities.