When doing postures in yoga, we stretch and breathe into tight areas of the body to create more space and flexibility.
Similarly, we can relieve stress when problems arise by not reverting to the reflex of panicking. This urgency to immediately solve and quickly rid ours and our dear ones’ lives of “problems” creates a lot of stress and may actually be counterproductive.
Instead of this “automatic” fright-flight response, creating space within one’s psyche for periods of confusion and disarray may help with resolving problems. Things can ferment, coalesce, fall apart again, then possibly come together to a more organic solution.
We can learn to be more comfortable with uncertainty, even welcoming it as necessary to this creative process.
Breathing into these tight emotional, intellectual, and spiritual spaces creates flexibility and freedom for the heart to be able to relax and smile as it finds its way.