Letting go of trying to control the uncontrollable

Sometimes with certain life events and circumstances our thoughts and emotions spiral out of control like a careening car that we cannot stop or gain control over.

Trying to control the uncontrollable only adds to the feeling of uncontrolledness.

Being anxious about being anxious only adds to the anxiety.

Through meditation and yoga, we can begin to let go and step more into the witness.  Unlike the runaway car, you know you are safe on your meditation cushion or yoga mat.  You can relax a little.  The car’s momentum can eventually decrease, and the car will slow down and maybe even stop.

 

An inner forest fire

As long as there’s life in a pattern of behavior, it serves you well.

But when these no longer breathe with life and begin to deaden you, the life force, like a forest fire, will clear your understory of habits and behavior patterns, of samskaras, that no longer serve you and the life force.

Yoga and meditation support and enliven this process of growth and transformation.

 

The mysterious flow or flux of life all in a glass

We can focus on the glass half empty and feel what is missing or lacking and be sad….

Or we can focus on the glass half full and be thankful for what we have… and yet be afraid of somehow losing it or knowing it is fleeting, only temporarily this way.

Or we can focus on the lovely glass with varying degrees of emptiness and fullness that are constantly in flux.

Fixing the unfixable

With love and kindness, a benevolent heart can “fix” the unfixable.

Yoga and meditation can help us develop and live from a more compassionate heart.

Compassion is a verb, something we practice, not a noun… not something we hold, have, or obtain.