Opening to the waves of life’s flow

In the hips, there’s this gripping or clenching onto life, a bearing down.  This is vain and futile, an ultimately doomed attempt to control life.

Life resists control, wiggling itself free like a fervent tadpole with its energetic whipping tail.

In yoga, we do pigeon pose among others to open the hips and lessen this bearing down.  And we do core strengthening asanas or postures like chair and dolphin.  A stronger core puts less strain on the hips and lower back supporting and hastening progress, increasing your potential for letting go of control.

More open and solidly grounded hips and a stronger core provide the strength, stability, and centeredness to more deeply trust, let go to, and feel the awe-inspiring waves of life’s flow.

 

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Setting life free!

Recently a friend shared a lovely and inspiring idea that I have made into an intention:  to wear life like a loose garment.

Discomfort or pain in the body is anything but loose!  They are both forms of tightness, lack of space–life being constricted.

Whether in meditation or a yoga pose, try to breathe into this tightness.  Expand it with your breath.  Breathe out and let it relax.  Repeat this again and again, breathing in and breathing out….

Watch what happens.  Do not judge it or anything that might come up.

Just be with it, as you loosen your “garment,” honoring life, setting it free to express itself.

Taking flight on the breath

How am I being supported?

What is it that holds me all the way to death… that is with me till the very end, when I take my last gasp?

The breath!

Invaluable, it brings and supports life.

Life breathes us again, and again, and again… seemingly unceasingly,

until it leaves this body in the slightest of gusts, spreading its wings, taking flight.

Saving my asana!

Six months ago, I was hunched over in constant sharp pain with acute sciatica, only able to walk a few steps without the help of a cane.

Yoga literally saved my butt!

With a few cranial sacral sessions, some physical therapy, acupuncture, and massage, a cortisone injection in my spine, plenty of Motrin and turmeric, I began a concerted effort to strengthen my core and lengthen and strengthen areas around it.

Six months later, I continue this core work with almost daily yoga.  I am off the other treatments for now, except for massage.  Giving up massage would be so so foolish! Right?!

Today, I stand differently than before the sciatica–I am taller, less hunched and less forward leaning.  My body’s center of gravity is lower.  I am more grounded.  I am stronger as I stand.

This power and groundedness permeates the rest of my life both on and off the mat.

I am happier, more alive with each day, stronger in who I am.

Pain may be a pain, but it can often be an alert from your body that something needs attention and care.  It’s one of the few “formal complaint procedures” your body has.

Listen to your pain, and talk to it.  Ask it what you need to do, not do, or modify.  Go to experts as needed and seek advice!

And, in most cases, do yoga!  Modify postures to accommodate your body’s condition.  With consistent effort, practice, and patience, this can often alleviate symptoms, decrease pain, and substantially increase the quality of your life no matter what your physical limitations may be.

 

By the way for more information beyond the anecdotal supporting and explaining many of the health benefits of yoga, click on The New York Times link Yoga For Everyone: A Beginners Guide.  And make sure to pursue some of the other articles accompanying it that go it much more detail about particular ailments. 

 

 

Valuing life

Always worthy, never doubt it, you and me

so alike, yet so different on this journey

to our grave.

Live and love life for all it has to offer,

this treasure chest so often unopened

until it’s too late.

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Imagine!*

What if the barriers that exist between you and me were suddenly gone?…

And you were suddenly me, and me you, in a way we never before could have imagined?

What if these “barriers” that keep us nestled safely in ourselves and in “our” world, what if these were more like whispy phantoms of our own creation?

And what if, having forgotten that we–our minds–created them, we then mistake them for who we are and treat them unwittingly as coveted possessions?

What if these “barriers” were not really barriers at all?…

And we could accept and see them for what they are, and simply walk through to the other side?